Am I the ayy hole for exposing my best friend’s actions during her bachelorette party?

Laura had been my best friend for years — and the fiancée of my older brother, Anthony. They were high school sweethearts and the perfect couple, and I was overjoyed to be her maid of honor.

Everything changed during Laura’s bachelorette trip. She hired male strippers — and then slept with **all** of them. I couldn’t believe my best friend would betray my brother like that.

When I confronted her, Laura showed no remorse. Instead, she threatened me: if I told Anthony, she’d tell **my** boyfriend, Todd, that I had once worked in the adult entertainment industry — a secret from my past I wasn’t ready to share, especially with someone as traditional and serious as Todd.

I was torn between doing the right thing and protecting myself. But when we returned, and I saw Laura laughing beside Anthony — who loved her deeply — I knew I couldn’t stay silent.

I made a plan. I invited Laura out to dinner, secretly set my phone to record, and gently steered the conversation toward the trip. She spoke freely, even joked that “the second guy was amazing in bed.” My heart sank. But I had proof.

The next day, I asked Anthony to come over. When I played the recording, his face went pale. He was silent for a long time, then said, “She told me the guys at the resort flirted with her, but she always pointed to her ring.” His heart was broken.

I apologized for not telling him sooner and admitted I was afraid Laura would expose my past to Todd. Anthony said, “That doesn’t matter. You’re my sister.” I asked him to find another reason to break up with Laura — I didn’t want her to know I was the one who exposed her.

Two weeks before the wedding, Laura called me in tears. “He left me!” she sobbed. She said Anthony had found proof she cheated, but didn’t know how he’d discovered it. I played the role of the comforting friend, hiding the fact that I was the reason her wedding fell apart.

For months after, Laura was like a ghost on my couch — crying, ranting, falling apart. I stayed by her side, brought her snacks, watched movies with her. Then one day she asked, “Did you ever tell Todd about your past?” I told her I hadn’t — that I wanted to share it when the time was right.

Eventually, Todd proposed — sweetly, romantically. I cried and said yes. As we began planning the wedding, I nervously asked Laura if she’d like to be my maid of honor. To my surprise, she agreed right away. She seemed like herself again.

Until **the wedding day.**

When the officiant asked, “Does anyone object to this union?”, a voice rang out from the back: “I do.”

I turned around — **it was Laura.**

She stood there, her face calm, her voice cold: “I know you’re the one who ruined my wedding to Anthony. I heard your conversation at his house.”

I froze. She revealed that she had **bugged Anthony’s house** after the breakup, hoping to find out if he was seeing someone else — and instead discovered that **I** was the one she should’ve been worried about.

Then she turned to Todd — and **exposed my past** to everyone. As if that wasn’t enough, she added, “Todd and I have been seeing each other for over a year. This was our plan all along.”

Then she **ran up and kissed Todd in front of all the guests.** “If anyone’s getting married today,” she shouted, “it’s me!”

Everyone was stunned. I could only **run from the altar, tears spilling down my cheeks.**

Anthony followed me into the dressing room and wrapped me in a hug. I choked out, “How could she do this?”

 

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