AITA for staying in bed while my boyfriend’s family surprise visits.

My boyfriend and I were relaxing at home after a long day. It was 10pm and I was already in bed for a migraine. It’s been a tough week for me because of D and C procedure I had after a very painful pregnancy and miscarriage. My husband was also about to go to bed since he worked all day and was tired too.

He gets a surprise call from his mother who said she was on her way to the house to give us something and she’s with her sister. My boyfriend became upset. He told her that it wasn’t a good time as we are already in bed. It’s not out of character for her to just do things so randomly and spur of the moment. She’s not a planner and always sucks people into he chaos. He’s frustrated because he knows I’m tired and not feeling well and said well I really want you to meet my one aunt. I said yeah I would like to meet her too but I don’t feel good and it’s my fault they decided to come. So he gets upset and I assume it’s over his mom and I try to calm him down by asking him to just entertain her for a little while but to please keep the noise down and not smoke inside the house as it will just make my headache worse. He then flips on me somewhere and I’m the bad guy for not even saying hi. So they come and they are loud. The garage doors are going. The dog is going. I can’t sleep and I’m getting really angry. I called my hisuandm when they were all in the basement under our bedroom and I said I appreciated her brining us stuff but it’s really late and I need to sleep. Then this morning he’s ignoring me and when I ask what’s wrong he’s telling me I’m rude for not even saying hi to them when they came. I think it was rude of them to show up so announced and to disregard how I’m feeling after what I just been through. Am I the asshole for not saying hello?