AITA for asking my friend’s gf how old she was when she made that ceramic?

AITA for asking my friend’s gf how old she was when she made that ceramic?

This happened a few days ago and I wanted to get some opinions. My friend who I’ll call Marcus’ gf, Sarah invited me and a couple more friends to dinner as a way of getting to know one another. Marcus had told us before that Sarah has been interested in ceramics since she was a kid and there were a lot of them displayed in her home. Now here I want to just say that I had no malicious intent when I asked this question and I just wanted to show that I was interested in getting to know her as she seemed like a genuinely nice person.

So, I saw a little ceramic pot in the living room and asked her how old she was when she made that one as I also participated in the ceramics club when I was a kid and it reminded me of a similar one I made which I still keep in my house. When I asked the question I could see on her face that she got upset and she told me that she made it a couple of weeks ago. I immediately tried to explain myself saying that I didn’t mean it was bad or anything and told her about my own little pot I made but I could see that it wasn’t really helping. Marcus gave me a look and then changed the subject but I could sense that she was a bit more distant towards me throughout the day.

After we left Marcus called me to berate me while I tried to explain everything again. He is still angry with me for everything and though I feel bad about my comment, I didn’t mean anything bad by it. So what do you think? AITA?

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